Alone? And Don't Want to Be?

First, know this: you are not really alone; there are hundreds, no, more like thousands in the same boat.

The number one problem for these people is: they're unknown, meaning, they haven't been around enough and met enough people to find the "right one." It's very likely that these people do not know the importance of:

a) looking their best, which should be their " look" in clothing, which also means that their clothing should be suitable, not expensive, just neat and fitting to the personality. And do not forget the "hair; it too must be neat and fitting.

Also, many "aloners" simply do not know

b) as many people as they may think.

My advice, go regularly to the places where singles hang out--upscale bars, churches, at\ moderately priced restaurants. (Take a friend, perhaps someone sailing with you?)

Dress nicely. In other words, smell and look the best you can

and above all:

Be patient and persistent. Finding "the right one" takes time, often. most of a lifetime.

GOD BLESS! If you believe in yourself, look your best, and are very particular about whom you date.

You WILL find a partner, probably several.